In between choosing an outfit, worrying about the little things in life like 'why hasn't he called', and trying to figure out what to eat for dinner - Someone's mum, sister, aunty, brother, father, life partner; is dying. I know, it's harsh. You want to stop reading.....but death sometimes just comes close enough to remind you that hey, you're still breathing. Its there, and its the best slap in the face. 

My parents are going to Hamilton today to bury my mums friend. Knowing someone has passed away is such a strange but acceptable feeling. Like getting the flu. Everything gets put in perspective. Why its important to treat your family well. Why its important not to complain if all you have in life is health and a roof over your head. And why its so damn important to live each day with gratitude. 

To all those who passed away RIP. I hope you find your place in the sun x